It's easy to get angry, it's even easier to shout back when the other person is shouting, or using cuss words. When a woman chooses not to argue back, she is just giving you time to think what is more important to you, your ego or your equation with her!
For those who feel that screaming at a woman is completely okay simply because they're male... Think again! A spoken word cannot be reversed...
There are times when you may feel the other person is flying off the handle, my question is 'Is that your problem or their's?'
You know what's worse than one person shouting on the phone? It's two people shouting! Hang up! Wait for the other person to cool off. Hanging up is not always a sign of immaturity. Sometimes it takes great courage to do it.
Let the other person realize his/her mistake. Meanwhile evaluate your relationship, if you're okay with this kind of drama in your life.. Go ahead, if not, let it go!
Sometimes it's better to walk away from such people, not because you're quitting, you're not. You have done your best and are just being a bit more respectful to yourself.
Goodbye is not an end, but the beginning of love you deserve to have. Start by loving yourself!
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